I have been the subject of family abuse since my birth from my mother. Altenatively, there might be an age difference of approximately 18 years between you (or any multiple of 18). my NN-I admire their emotional depth but I have always felt that I can completely see through them. They must learn to let go in the end if the relationship is over and wish happiness and love to them (yea I know its hard trust me but you will feel better and freed in the future). Another funny thingwe talk baby language with each other haha! my pluto (5th house ruler) conjuncts his north node and his venus 2 degress! Have no experience with square moon. Might have something to do with it. I don't know how long he will be around (possibly not for long), but it has been interesting. It drives me absolutely batty. What about his northnode square my northnode? In synastry, Lilith is definitely like pluto, i noticed, lots of obsession, control, jealousy,revenge but on a POSITIVE note Lilith can bring an amazing profound connection that is unexplainable between two people, like a sort of fascination. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. My Lilith (AQU and Venus (TAU) are both on 12 deg .. additionally Sedna and Eros are on 11 degrees (TAU). How would his vertex influence NNode? Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. No doubt Ive hurt him a lot, but (due to other aspects) he has also hurt me. I couldn't take it anymore and drifted out of the friendship. My NN and their planet: I don't have much experience with this one but usually there's a natural affinity and we are at ease with each other. He is the teacher and the leader, and I am required to be the student who relinquishes control and in some ways becomes interdependent (Gemini 7th house). I can only imagine that lilith conjunctions make for an addictive relationship ..but squares and opposites are much more confusing to me. Neptune conj the NNthis may bring great sorrow as you may have had ideals that were not met leading to great sorrow. Nothing I ever did was good enough, she always found a way to be hurtful and punish and abusive if not with words then her actions!! Nessus is not an asteroid I have paid any attention to, but because of your post I decided to investigate. Jupiter con the NN- the person will bring optimism to you. My boyfriends Moon is conjunct my NN. If not, they have a very similar life purpose, Oops! If you are interested, please contact me by e mail morelove@mychristianpsychic.com. The Proserpina person may corrupt the innocence of the NN person, in some way. She thinks that she is on the same leaugue as Beyonce even though she uses everyones credit and gets government assistance despite making the national average salary. Their natal Sado/Uranus squares my sun, and their natal Nessus is opposite my sun. I had to learn this, always beeing the helping hand because i was raised that way. thats bad right? Did you have a past life with him? Hes asking i pay money now so theres definitely a lot of hate going on now and idk. It is extremely uncomfortable for me, but I know that he is correct and I also know that it is something I need to accomplish for my own growth. However, if it is, it will show up. People judging.. ive done this, ive helped and they turned against me. So, I am curious to know what your experiences have been respectively. after learning about plutonian, neptunian relationship, and healed my codependency, im not gonna be fooled by strong emotion anymore. I think it also depends on the level of one's evolution, so to speak. our suns conjunct Hence, these two aren't planetary bodies. I think this is entertained because everyone is out there looking for their straight-line "soulmate". It's a complex connection and I don't have a firm grasp on how to interpret it. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. We have a nice connection and get each other. Bringing Lilith into the equation is a definite learning opportunity, no matter how you slice it. What if someone Saturn trined the other persons sun, ascendant and Saturn? his mercury tight trine to my descendant. Your take on Nessus trine Pluto in synastry ? Any intimate relationship is a sharing of hearts. How awesome! Please come and join the Forum. The Descendant conjunct the NNthe DSC person may be a partner to the NN person, such as a spouse. Hi! Even that it got in the way of my carreer so i could take care of my own family. Tbh I have more masochistic tendencies but maybe thats just what I thought, Where is your Dejanira, V. That is the victim asteroid. (within 1 degree) It is opposite my husbands Mercury. Heartbreaking. Intelligent girl, attractive - zero self esteem. How differently would this playa out? My Saturn square his Nodes, is that very bad? ..an extra twist their lilith also squares my north and south node on the other side!!! LOL. here on this post. I respectfully disagree with this. Posts: 619From: Island of SirensRegistered: Jul 2013, In synastry, Lilith is definitely like pluto, i noticed, lots of obsession, control, jealousy,revenge but on a POSITIVE note Lilith can bring an amazing profound connection that is unexplainable between two people, like a sort of fascination. Alas, such is life and such is denial. but in my case, we have venus square neptune, venus square mars, also his nessus on my mars exact, then his nemesis on my vertex. The SN and the NN are tied together, remember, so anything that touches your SN also touches your NN. He is extremely caring about me, feels like hes my Mother sometimes hahaoverprotective also. But most of my generation have nessus in cancer and pluto in libra. Lol. If it were in the 12th house, it could be hidden. Saturn is not a mean parent but he plays by the rules and is all about goals, responsibility and maturity. The Mars conjunct North Node synastry aspect indicates that there is a strong sense of magnetism in the relationship. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. Is that NN conjunct Dsc or South node conjunct ascendant? I just would like to give a huge thumbs up for the nice information you might have Thanks again! How would you interpret this Ami? Someone s NN and Jupiter conjucts with my Mc and her SN conjucts with my IC. This post has been getting so much traction. Ill break it up in two comments also, so its not so overwhelming. The North Node person is definitely in for an experience. The Moon is the heart. You and he may bond over the betrayal the Sedna person had but this would not mean THIS person would be betray you, I think. Lilith has been a sexual planet from my personal experiences (along with the experience of others). Nessus/chiron is horrible. That which conjuncts the Moon affects the heart. I have never said that before or felt that way before and I dont know what prompted me to say that or feel that way but I did. I do think Jesus can overcome everything but only Him and a relationship with Him Abby. Most important to me is that you find Jesus. Orchus conj the NNThe Orchus person would make the relationship about a journey of overcoming. Idk what to do about the situation. Eros conj the NNthe relationship will be very erotic. How this would play out exactly I am not sure but betrayal would be a theme of the relationship. To me, if I see a strong Nessus synastry, I would runperiod end. I have a question. I don't know what happened but I'm not that attracted to Cancer energy anymore. However, with time, this is more of a fighting/fighting aspect i.e lets tear each others necks off. Do you want that? I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. Lol I feel very comfortable around them - like they get me on an emotional level. She is 10-11 years older than me and we met on the Internet.What does it mean ? She called me a gollira thinking that Im all that and said that my hair is horrible and nappy, I dont have shit in life, and that no man would want me. Others differ with me. Emotional exploitation. Like an intro. Did he always find you attractive even before you got together and after the relationship? Here is the link to my articleThe North Node in Synastry. Posts: 16From: ChicagoRegistered: Nov 2014. This synastry aspect indicates that in the past life, there . Any further thoughts on this aspect? I would have to do a one question chart for you, my Friend. Do you actually know of abusive relationships that had the Dejanira-NN connections? Isn't the individual that has Lilith makes the planet or NN feel that they are hard to Figure out or grasp? Neptune conj the NNthis may bring great sorrow as you may have had ideals that were not met leading to great sorrow. My cousin Sun is on my SN, her Moon is square Node. One would have to see the whole chart to really give a more meaningful answer, as we always do. Does it seem like YOU are a haunt to him physically? If I see a chart with a hard planet or asteroid conjunct someones NN, I tell them to be very careful of marrying the person. Moon-South Node: this is an aspect which can guarantee a very deep emotional relationship. )My pluto squares my nodes natally and honestly I am drawn towards people who aspect my pluto and then square my nodes more than any others. Eris sq NN has to be close(2-3 orb) and it is a rather small aspect so prolly not that significant. He has dejandra conjunct his moon and my nessus is right on his moon. I met this really awesome person, and I found out our moons are squaring each other. How does it play? What do you think? Watch and wait it out. It may be difficult for each person to resist the pull of the relationship. Just found out I have Nessus Conjunct the Moon with a guy I like but the ord is 4. my NN-They make me feel like I can never compete with them. Family relations changes due to internet. I still consider him to be a 110% soulmate even though we are no longer together we are still very close has anyone else had interesting contacts like this with Lilith or can elaborate more on this asteroid in synastry? we were almost always together. But we still enjoy each others company and remain friends. When we were children she was my role model. But no matter what, even if you are the Sun or the Node ,both people will find it extemely hard to let go of the other person,and they will keep coming back or always feel that they should have tried harder. My Moon conjunct his SN - close friends! Many people would, but not everyone, I dont think. For me the Nodal connections are very powerfull,especially if the Sun or Moon are involved.I've been both the Sun and the Node in various connections,and I agree that being the Sun is way better. Er . Now, when someone's planet is on my SN - it feels very familiar but kinda iffy too, just like when my planets on their SN. Both of these people are very close to me, but are incredibly unsettling to me. He's like a drug to me.. My true oscaliling Lilith is conjunct his moon.Idk what it means. Of course, Im only learning this now. I am the Venus , he is Nessus . I have an exact NN degree conjunction with someone who Im with right now. The charts will, always, reveal what is there. NN can be elusive. Some people are OK with it and some are not. Is it bad? I feel like it goes one of two ways - either I am very close to them and like them a lot - or - I feel disappointed because they are not living up to my expectations. (I have NN in Gemini in the 7th and SN in Sadge in the 1st). 10 planets from Sun to Pluto and the North Node in detail. And omg yes I can definetely see the NN oppurtunity to learn whatever asteroid or planet is touching this sensitive point to them. How this may play out. Venus conjunct my SN - They seem to fall for me -even a gay guy with this placement! just met that guy and I already had that kind of weird feeling about him.. he is very Plutonic. If a person BRINGS a planet or asteroid to the North Node person, the planet or asteroid becomes a theme of the relationship.Hence, please look carefully at that which conjuncts the North Node in synastry. Rather than submitting to him, she left the Garden and lived in exile. Synastry Aspects - Astrology Meanings and Interpretations. Someone in my family has this with me. I can only imagine how you react to people who put their planets on your NN/Pluto! I have Venus conjunct Nessus in synastry with someone I am having a very long term affair with. We had Venus mars contacts and sun, mercury,moon, and mars contacts all less than 3 degrees. i watched a video about it that moon/venus conjunct rahu usually the moon/venus person that would be so obsessed. Were still friends. we are not slaves to astrology. quote: Originally posted by yungang_grotto: Also I think maybe Lilith's attraction to the North Node person when they're expressing their NN in a healthy way would be extremely powerful, but there would also be an element of repulsion, perhaps equally powerful. You do not want a Nessus theme. Saturn energy is like a stern parent. I see alot about conjunctions but nothing about oppositions. Hi Ami I always enjoy your no-holds-barred approach. Jupiter and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart. Since it was a relative, I had little choice in the matter However, if this were a current It tells something about our path in life that we need to learn and balance. my jupiter/uranus sextile to his sun If I send our synastry chart and explain the situation could you tell me what you see thats relevant?